Can I Trust My Daddy?

By Nancy Virden (c)2014

I watched a little two-year-old girl running from her father. After about a dozen feet she paused, uncertain if going farther was a good idea. He waited patiently, protective, aware of her surroundings.  

In her perceived independence, she had the confidence of one who felt that no matter what she chose to do, her father was nearby.  She trusted her daddy. 

Then she saw me. I smiled and her eyes grew wide. Suddenly her world had a stranger in it! Without hesitation, she raced back to safety, warily keeping her eyes on me as she ran past.

She didn’t have to see if he was there. She didn’t have to ask him to be there. He was just there, she knew it, and when she reached him, she understood it was his arms picking her up.

The children of some men experience disappointment. They may be left to question whether their fathers will be there when needed for strength and support. Perhaps the adult child knows if they run back to their dads for safety, pain will result. The same question is asked by every heart – Does daddy love me? Is he proud of me? Can I trust him?

I am a Christian, but in this advocacy ministry do not intend to send the message that only people of my faith recover from mental health challenges. Many strategies can lead to mental wellness and emotional stability. 

Nonetheless, according to Jesus as quoted in the book of John, no one comes to Father God except through him, God’s Son. He claimed to be the only eternal solution, our Savior, the means to forever love and hope.

Faith in Jesus has made a clear running path for me to God, the Father who never disappoints.  There is no need to double-check. The Almighty lifts me up when the world is full of scary strangers or disappointing dads.  

Today’s Helpful Word

Psalm 27:10

“Though your mother and father abandon you, I will lift you up.” – God


Nancy Virden Seminar, May-2016
Photo Joe Boyle Photography

Always the Fight Ministries (ATFM) has been displaying compassion for those fighting mental illness, addiction, or abuse since 2012. Nancy is the founder and voice of ATFM and openly shares her emotional resurrection from despair.


NOTE: I am not a doctor or a mental health professional, and speak only from personal experiences and observations. In no way is this website intended to substitute for professional mental or behavioral health care.

If you are feeling suicidal, or concerned about someone who is, in the U.S. call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255), or for a list of international suicide hotlines, go here.

If you are suicidal with a plan, immediately call 911 in the U.S. or go to your nearest emergency room. In the EU call 112. (For other international emergency numbers, go here ). Hope and help are yours!

*Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright (c) 1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.., Carlo Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved


  • Nancy,
    What a wonderful illustration of God’s limitless, unconditional, unending love. His love is for everyone, the believer and non believer, for He showed His great love for us by sending His Son Christ Jesus to die for us, while we were sinners and did not know Him. I agree with you…His love, mercy, grace and healing are available for EVERYONE.
    “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.“
    Romans 5 :8
    “He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?“
    Romans 8 :32
    “And by His stripes we are healed.“
    Isaiah 53:5

    We are healed by His stripes…NOT by anything we do, NOT by being good enough or righteousness.
    He bore those healing stripes on His body long before we knew Him.
    His healing- mental, emotional, physical and spiritual, is for everyone.

    Thank you again for your wonderful messages of encouragement.

    Liked by 1 person

    • Thank you, Patty. If we could only put into sufficient words the endlessness of His love. He left us with a picture- His Son on the cross and the resurrection. I’m grateful!

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