By Nancy Virden (c)2021
Leadership. Sometimes thankless, often criticized, the job of leadership can be deeply misunderstood by those who do not lead. As shepherds, leaders face the wolves. They are the captains that go down with the ship. Their investment is real.
This week, a friend who runs an addiction recovery group was lambasted as unteachable and controlling because a group member who is both those things was slightly inconvenienced. Leaders must keep some emotional distance from those they lead to prevent their own downfall toward favoritism and obligation. It is unfortunately also necessary because one unrecovered addict or troubled soul might cross the line. Leaders must balance caring about people and developing protocol that supports both function and boundaries.
Leaders are the ones who put prayers, sweat, and tears into planning, making difficult choices, and prioritizing the mission over less vital issues. Does it make sense for someone merely observing to demand that a leader accept a suggestion without giving the leader time to think about it? Is it realistic for a leader to lower well-considered standards because one person took it personally?
Leading an organization or ministry specifically to support those who are finding their way back from a difficult time, requires some thick skin. These therapists, pastors, counselors, peer supports, and doctors most often stay the course unless of course, their lives are threatened.
The men and women who help are not without feelings, impatience, self-doubt, or anger. They must take steps to maintain their mental health, too. Take the time to say thank you to leaders for their service. -COMMENTS WELCOME
Today’s Helpful Word
Have confidence in your leaders and submit to their authority, because they keep watch over you as those who must give an account. Do this so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no benefit to you.
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