Compassionate Love Blog: Displaying compassion for those who fight mental illness, addiction, and abuse (c)2018 Nancy Virden, Always the Fight Ministries
A time of reprieve and emotional healing follows difficult struggles with depression. It is as if God is saying, “Come now child. I know you were just beat up. Let’s sit awhile, I will bandage you, and we can talk. Only rest and know you are safe.”
Ah, the tender heart of the Almighty.
I have learned that when I feel most like giving up – whether it be hopelessness, money concerns, schooling, or burn out in some other area, the answer comes right after a sense of defeat.
Repeated experience has taught me to respond differently. When my mind screams. “I can’t,” now I add,”You (God) can.” When life is too much to bear, I recall that I have survived the worst. When emotions are too much to handle, relief and healing begin in the embrace of the Heavenly Father.
You have probably heard that it is okay to not be okay. That is true! At difficult times, we may need to put ourselves into mental or emotional health intensive care.
For me, this means stopping everything and focusing on repairing my thought processes. From simply praying in my home, to therapy and even psychiatric hospitalization, taking care of myself is the primary means of restoration.
9 ways to practice intensive care
- Take a break for awhile. If you feel as if everything is closing in around you, step back and rest.
- Call on God for wisdom.
- Seek professional diagnosis if these struggles interfere with daily functioning, especially if it has been going on for a few weeks.
- Struggles that seem insurmountable can ease up by reaching out for support and hearing a new perspective.
- Eat right
- Sleep right
- Putting yourself in mental or emotional intensive care is more than taking a mental health day. You may need several.
- If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts, for safety and health go to the actual Emergency Room.
Trust that sometimes hope hides behind pain. It does not disappear. To find it again, consider paying vital attention to your well-being. Place yourself in mental health intensive care.
Today’s Helpful Word
The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.
NOTE: I am not a doctor or mental health professional. I speak only from personal experiences with and observations of mental and behavioral health challenges. In no way is this website intended to substitute for professional mental or behavioral health care.
If you are struggling emotionally today or feeling suicidal, or concerned about someone who is, in the U.S. call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255), or for a list of international suicide hotlines, go here.
If you are suicidal with a plan, immediately call 911 in the U.S. (for international emergency numbers, go here ), or go to your nearest emergency room. Do not be alone. Hope and help are yours.